jeffery
I was cheated on by my ex. She carried on with one of the juniors in her company.
She was a solicitor.
She was 31 and he was 19.
She kept telling me and other people around her ie her Parents she could not be happier in her life and could not wait for our wedding.
we were together with each other since the age of 16.
I always said if she carried on or said she stopped loving me i was out the door.
True to my word i left the moment i found out.
When i met her months later i asked her why, the answer she gave was your telling me you would not of done it if a 19 year old girl came onto you.
My answer was No and i walked away.
Did the whole incident stand me in good stead and the answer is yes.
14 years later i am with the same woman i met 6 months after that one ended and married and very happy.
Yes i was very cautious starting a new relationship but i never changed anything i did or lived my life.