I don't know about that. Most women are drawn to the bad boy type who cheat. Many men cheat and aren't caught or their girlfriend/wife doesn't leave him. So, for a lot of women it's a repetitive cycle. I don't want to be cheated on in order to be a 'winner' but everyone should choose wisely who they bring in to their life.
this is a blind sided article....nobody wins under these circumstances.....this reminds me of the quote "what doesnt kill you makes you stronger"....but its a very painful experience for all concerned
Forget about who will win at last in a relationship. It's all BS as nobody wants / likes to be cheated by his or her partner in the first place. Do you?
Goes along with the saying I used after it happened to me ....sometimes when you lose you win. It was so true with me. Had my cheater, grew up, learned to pick better and with a wonderful man, who I respect and respects me.
They "might" make better choices. Or they might well make the same ones over and over. Head learning isn't heart learning, and the body's reaction to pheromones and subtle clues is beyond basic control. She also "might" blame men, or use it as a crutch in a future relationship to get more of what she wants. Still a "win". Just not a healthy one.
same old rubbish women are no different and also y is there always a bunch of #$%$ defending the cheating #$%$ and not helping the poor bloke who was cheated on
