Why Being Cheated On Makes You ‘Win’ At Relationships

can we have a fair and balanced statement on cheating women?

Or expect a male bashing from a writer who had a bad life's experience.

Is this good journalism of just another juicy hook to get the ads noticed ?

Who decides these posting at Yahoo?

no it cannot do it once it will be done again.they are not satisfied with you and your looks or your heart .get rid and find someone who can love everything about you forever.

I know a couple of women who have been cheated on, and they were hurt but, as the article says, they came through it fine. Their respective chaps were indeed unbelievable dheads. One of them seriously regretted his drunken fumble. The other one I honestly believe was a closet homosexual, because he wasn't even slightly bothered and seemed to want to get caught with another girl to enhance his macho image.

On the other side, as some have pointed out, I know quite a few blameless lads who have been left gutted for ages after being cheated on, with the girls' friends generally rallying around the girl and describing the lads as losers or worse, even though they had done nothing wrong.

Open relationships is the way to go unless you've been exclusive for a very long time. Otherwise just date, don't get serious. When I was in the military I use to tell my guys if you fall in love I don't want to be around you anymore. So dumb to fall in love just because some chick gives it up, your not special probably the third guy she was with that week. Church girls are the worse at cheating so don't think good girls are any better.

Firstly, never promise anything. You don't win, hopefully you learn from each experience. Both men and women go out with others on the side. No one owns you. Sex is to be shared and enjoyed.

BS

Should have seen the look on my wife's (now ex-wife) face when I told her i knew she was cheating on me, knew who she was cheating with and where they'd been doing the cheating. I think that there are a lot of cheating women too. Let's here how there cheating makes the guy better. Gotta be equal and all that; right?

And that's one of the main problems with women and relationships today... looking at it like it's a 'game' or competition you can win or lose. Pull your head out of your a$$.

Well I suppose if you are happy for your other half to go with someone else you'd just as well ditch them the trust is gone and it's not a good basis for a decent respectful relationship. Cheat on me your gone bye bye.

really? in simplist forms..no it isn't good

Guys take my advice. We're so much better off to simply rent a woman when the need "rises". No drama or no constant beetching, you simply pay for a service and everybody leaves happy.

WOOOOOOOOOOO Tempting fate again obviously women are a paragon of virtue and if they did cheat it is for surely the man in their live's fault............

I never think of it as cheating, I survived the 60s.

Guys only want women for one thing and that's what makes them weak

Whatevs

OR you could come out of it with your confidence shattered.

thank you for generalizing that only men cheat in a relationship. You're the real MVP Yahoo

It only works for a guy if he learns to project his best standards and values along with the attraction of his true personality rather than appearance and wealth to the lady he desires.

Should she want to select that guy he will realize and get confirmation based on the permanence of what he represents to the security and satisfaction to her that are unlikely to change, unlike his relative appearance and wealth.

Selection made by appearance and wealth are only temporary attractions used by women influenced by our materialistic society and their own weak personalities to sacrifice long term happiness and satisfaction for the status and security they falsely believe will always be available.

It depends on the person, some learn from their mistakes, while others don't. Plus if a woman prefer bad guys to good guys, they can't complain when they are treated badly. Maybe next time, they should choose a nice guy. That does work both ways. Men should choose good women, if they choose bad ones, they can't complain either. However some people are always lowering themselves and make do with anything rather than be lonely. That's how some people justify being with people who mistreat them, which sums up how low self esteem they have. Rather have a toe rag as a partner than be alone !

Completely one sided article. Who exactly are those men cheating with? I will bet women that are also in relationships. Women are worse than men ever thought about being! They are secretive and conniving in the way they go about things. Men find something better and will move on but women will continue in their current relationship and sneak behind the guy's back until she is caught. If you are going to conduct a study, do it from both angles.