Why Being Cheated On Makes You ‘Win’ At Relationships

Frankly I don't care to "win" in a relationship - I'm simply care about not to be cheated on.

If you feel a desire for someone else, then be a man and end the relationship, instead of being a boy and cheating.

Why you sexist b**** objectifying man hater! This theory applies to men also.

How about women who cheat?

Did the study only focus on females being cheated on? What about males? Every blog, article, post, i see acts like only males cheat and only females suffer from a lot of stuff from a divorce. It happens to men too.

@Victor, Yes I was wondering the same thing, don't women cheat on their boyfriends and husbands? I kinda think they do.... Anyways it's just the typical demonization of Men as usual. It's that girls are sugar and spice, and guys are pieces of #$%$ thing.....

Strangely that actually makes sense....

I had four long-term live-in relationships in my life, I was married to two. Where I was true to all four, all four ladies cheated on me, at least 2 of them multiple times. All four were, in their own right, hard workers, nice people, and had a lot of friends. Regrets? NO, not really, in fact, I have been alone and fairly miserable( in THAT regard) for well over twenty years, but day dream often of the good parts of those relationships. However, if it were to be characterized as to who won and who lost, especially as to where those four ladies are now.............I was the BIG LOSER, not the winner................they got their cakes and were able to eat it too.......and ended up in great places, compared to me. C'est la vie !

You need science to explain this?

this experiment is bogus. we all know many women jump from one toxic relationship to other after they get cheated on.

its aiways the man right!! I call BS on that one!!

"Why Being Cheated On Makes You ‘Win’ At Relationships"

Because you're likely the one on the right side of a shotgun.

Does this go for men who have been cheated on as well or does this author not believe that ever happens?

LOL....this is 100% bs as it assumes men only cheat on women due to their own deficiencies and that women "win"LOL, by being more able to realize these deficiencies in men earlier... Whereas I'm sure some men do cheat for those reasons, I am also very sure that many men cheat because their women drop their dating facade and turn into succubi......those women will always be succubi and never know how to have a mutually successful relationship.....

This "study" fails to realize the difference between men and women.

This "research" is so flawed that I hardly know where to begin explaining how pointless it is.

Well I guess there's no pity for men who get cheated on. At least by this writer.

losers are winners ? I wouldn't argue with that either.

agree 100%

guys too....guys get cheated on and learn also....

Scientists from the university of why did Nasa bin my application?