Couple plague their neighbor with texts asking him to be silent EVERY time their baby has a nap - even when he's being quiet. So who's in the right?
A man has shared all the noise complaints that he has received on Imgur [CN]
一名男子在Imgur网上分享了他收到的所有埋怨他太吵的信息。
User ChefShwasty was plagued with texts about his drumming from his downstairs neighbours every time their baby had a nap[CN]
每当楼下邻居的女儿睡觉时,用户名为ChefShwasty男子总被他邻居发短信轰炸,埋怨他的鼓声。
Even after he gave up drumming all together they continued to complain[CN]
即便他不打鼓了,他的邻居们也一如既往的埋怨。
A man has revealed how he has been berated by his nightmare neighbours with constant noise complaints since March this year
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一名男子透露,从今年3月份起,他就一直遭到噩梦般的邻居严格呵斥,说他不断制造噪音。
The Imgur user who goes by the username ChefShwasty shared the texts he received from his downstairs neighbours in the hope for advice[CN]
Imgur网站用户ChefShwasty分享了他楼下邻居埋怨噪音的信息,寻求一些建议。
The texts would often be passive aggressive, such as this one which implied the TV was extremely loud
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文本内容尽是负面内容,矛头尖锐,比如这例:这条信息暗示电视声音太吵了。
The man says that he tried to be as compliant as possible about the fact that they had a young baby and would warn them when he was going to play
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该名男子声称他尽可能地顺从,毕竟邻居有一个小女孩,他准备打鼓时总会警告他的。
The musician (pictured) says that he cut his practice back to suit the couples requests[CN]
该名音乐家(如图)声称他削减了自己的训练时间以满足这对夫妇的要求。
Despite their continuous requests he would always try and keep the noise down when asked
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尽管邻居的要求不厌其烦,有叫到他小声点时他总是尽量降低噪音。
He even found himself receiving messages from his neighbours when he was out of the house[CN]
即便他离家了,也还是受到邻居发来的信息(埋怨噪音)。
To begin with the messages remained quite sweet natured if a little annoying
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一开始,邻居发的信息还是很客气的,虽有点烦人。
However, as time went on his downstairs neighbours became less and less polite
It got to the point where their requests became quite demanding and rude towards him
Eventually the Imgur user admits that he became less understanding, instead choosing to stand his ground
Despite changing his drumming schedule completely his neighbours continued to complain
Eventually the long suffering drummer was told by his management that he couldn't play his instrment any more
He ceased practice all together but he continued to receive 'whiny' messages from them
A man has revealed how he is constantly berated with noise complaints from his very fussy downstairs neighbours - even when he's being quiet.
Imgur user ChefShwasty, believed to be from the US, shared on the social media site the text messages he's received from the people living below him constantly asking him to be silent every time that their young baby is sleeping.
Although the man has been compliant with their requests he admits that he has now reached the point where he believes that they are being unreasonable.
The man, who says he enjoys occasionally practising on his drum kit, shared his story on Imgur where he asked other people for advice about what to do about the problem.
Going by the username ChefShwasty he explained that when moving in to his apartment, he had met with the mother who lived below him, and told her to let him know if he was being too noisy.
He revealed: 'The very next morning, I receive the text. I was chopping onions for a vegetable stew I was making for dinner later that night, and apparently it was too much.'
It read: 'Do you mind holding off drinking for an hour or so? My daughter's sleeping.'
To which he replied: 'Currently chopping vegetables. Sorry. Didn't realise it was that loud.'
The musician went on to reveal that his neighbours continued to plague him with messages. However, he tried to keep the peace by complying with their wishes.
Another message reads: 'Lol. Watcha watching? Sounds dramatic ;).'
To which he replied: 'I'm at work. Must be the girlfriend. I can ask her to turn it down if you'd like?'
He continued: 'Texts like these became frequent. I changed my schedule around a lot so I could fit some drum time in.
'Most
times, I would even wait for them to leave so that I could drum. I got a
lot of these within a minute of starting. My practice dropped to once a
week, sometimes not for a few weeks.'
One message read: 'Shoot! We just got home and she had fallen asleep in the car. She's napping now. Do you mind holding off a little longer?'
The Imgur user replied: 'Say no more. I'm quiet.'
It got to the stage when he would continue to receive texts when he wasn't even at home with his neighbours messaging him complaining when his girlfriend was watching the television.
He admits that he would tiptoe round his neighbours in order to avoid any more complaints from them.
He added: 'I played once a week, but ONLY when they were gone. I would stop when I saw them come home.
'I would even alter my lunch breaks at work so that I could come home when they were gone and get a few minutes in.'
However, despite his courteous attitude he soon received a note from the management of his apartments.
It read: 'Due to the noise being created by your drum kit we have to please ask that you no longer play due to it impeding the peaceful living of your neighbours.'
The Imgur user goes on to explain that he has now cut out any practice of drumming but he still receives noise complaints.
He continued: 'I don't know what they're doing. I can't afford to move.
'Psychotic neighbors ask my complacency in lowering my volume, which I do for months until I'm near-silent, and now it looks like they're trying to get us evicted.'
Following his admission many Imgur users came forward with advice.
User picklesmcboots338 said: 'Start randomly screaming in the middle of the night and claim your drum kit is an outlet for your night terrors.'
User jonthemonk pointed out: 'A lot of people don't realise you are under no obligation to actually answer texts, phone calls or the door. Ignore everything!'
One member even suggested that the man ought to approach the police about his neighbours.
FreyaBear said: 'This is harassment. Go to the cops, file a report, show them these texts.... Explain the situation.. if you need to press charges later.'
Using a drum kit in an upstairs apartment is incredibly selfish and stupid. If they can hear the tv imagine a drum. He needs to move to a louder neighbourhood where everyone parties till 3am and plays music with the windows open. The fact he received a noise abatement order tells you everything you need to know.[CN]
自己住上层,还使用鼓乐器是极其自私,万分愚蠢的。连电视机的声音都能听得到,想想打鼓的话会怎么样。他啊,最好搬到吵闹一点的紧邻社区,像那种开派队到凌晨3点的,他大可打开窗户放心弹奏。你经常收到消除噪音命令就已经说明了一切。
You didn't read the article! You COULDN'T have! He all but abandoned the drumming. His neighbours are not cut out for thin-walled apartment living. He said he can't afford to move. Maybe downstairs needs to move to a detached where no toilets, aeroplanes, motorbikes, dogs, mating cats, sneezes can be heard. A practice kit sounds like typing (on a keyboard not a Remington) but I guess that would be too much for some. Heaven forbid he uses email while the baby is asleep! The horror! People who make repetitive and frivolous noise complaints are just common and vile troublemakers.[CN]
你就没读这篇文章!绝对没读!他都放弃了打鼓!他的邻居就不该在这种薄墙类的公寓居住了。他也说要搬家的话付不起房租啊。楼下的住户才该搬到独立式住宅,那种没有公厕,没有飞机,没有摩托车,没有狗,没有发情的猫,打喷嚏都能听到的地方。这种训练装备声音跟打字差不多(键盘上的打字而不是雷明登霰弹枪那种)我觉着,对有些人来说丁点声音都是无法忍受的。孩子睡了,上天禁止你发邮件。太恐怖了吧!不厌其烦地埋怨噪音骚扰的人太普遍了,这些人都是制造麻烦的主!
Well I thought I'd read the whole article but I missed the bit about a noise abatement order! I think he's done EVERYthing reasonable to accommodate his neighbours - if it's not his property (i.e. he's renting) then it's not his fault if the soundproofing isn't good. If he can't even chop vegetables without complaints, then there's something wrong![CN]
我觉得,我读完整片文章了,沃克没读过关于消除噪音的条令啊。我觉着他已经尽一切可能去迎合他的邻居了 – 如果这不是他的私人地产(比如他是租的),隔音材料不好可就不是他的错了。如果说切个菜都还接到投诉,这屋子肯定有问题!
It is an electronic kit. It makes about the same sound as someone typing on a laptop. It has mesh heads which connect to a module which the drummer runs headphones out of. They are mostly used in places where an acoustic kit would be too loud, ie an apartment building.[CN]
电子鼓乐器啊。就跟你在平板电脑敲字的声音差不多。鼓头连接到调节器,声音直接从耳机里边出来的。一般在音响会显得太吵的地方,比如公寓建筑
the key word here is "drumming" . Only the selfish practice loud instruments at home.[CN]
关键词是“击鼓”啊。自私的人才会在家玩这种噪音大的乐器把。
All you single kids out there who don't understand what it's like to be responsible for other people other than your selfish selves. If my neighbours play music too loud I'll ask them turn it down if it continues I'll ask them again if it continues I'll break into the house and smash the stereo and go to war with them ... There's being nice and PC then there is taking the pee[CN]
你们这些单细胞的孩子啊,只管顾自己,不懂得要对他人负责的。如果我的邻居玩音乐太吵了,我会叫他们关掉。他们继续玩,我就再次要求他们关掉。再三警告还继续弹我就冲进他家门把音响撕个稀巴烂,跟他们干架…人善被人欺啊。
Single, but gave up my job and home to care for my parent. And even before that, I suspect I was a lot less selfish than you, and certainly a lot more polite. Not to mention intelligent enough to spot that it's an electronic drumkit in the picture, played with headphones.[CN]
我单身,放弃了我的工作和家庭去照顾父母。即使没有这事,我觉得我比你要也要无私的多,也更文明。更别说我在图片上看到那是套电子鼓乐器,带着耳机才能玩的。
he was learning a song at his grandads request....he handed his number to complete strangers so they could text just in case....he has not stopped playing his electric drum kit. Selfish is the last word I would use for him...however the demanding mom needs a lesson or two![CN]
他只是在爷爷请求下学习歌曲而已…他把自己号码发给陌生人以便太吵时他们可以给他发信息…他没有停止玩他的电子鼓乐器。自私这种不适合用在他身上。反倒是这个吹毛求疵的妈妈得好好教训一番。
I live in a detached house, but when I know its the nap time for my neighbours who are old and grumpy pensioners who tell me they nap at 1.00pm every day, I go and rev my motorbike up in the garden which is near their bedroom window. They get really grumpy and wave their fists at me. it has become a hobby of mine.[CN]
我住着独立式的房子,我邻居 - 老态龙钟、性格乖张的退休老人告诉我每天13:00午睡,我就故意去临近他们卧室窗户的花园里加速摇转我的自行车。他们就怒火中烧,对我挥拳相向。这已经成为我的习惯了。
If I lived below him I'd stick his drum kit right up where the sun doesn't shine....[CN]
如果我住在他楼下,我就把他的鼓乐器固定在太阳都见不到的地方
It's an electronic drumkit, played with headphones, and quiet enough that the neighbour mistook his chopping vegetables for practising. Maybe give up the violent threats and use the time saved to learn to read?![CN]
是电子鼓乐器啊,带着耳机弹奏,足以让邻居误认为他在练习切菜。还是放弃这暴力威胁,利用这点时间来读读书吧。